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I'm a lesbian and have come out to some of my family members [aunt, other aunt, grandmother, uncle. cousin, cousin's girlfriend, family friend]. I want to tell my father but I'm afraid he'll get mad. You see my father had left my mother when I was 2 and I rarely see him anymore. And since my mother has died he's the only one of my parents I can tell. Do you think that, even though he's never been a part to my life, I should tell him I'm gay?? Even though the day is going to come that he'll ask "Hannah why aren't you married" and then I tell him?? He's going to have to find out sooner of later.If you look at it from the standpoint of getting it over with, then sure, why not, especially if he is already not a part of your life much anymore.i think u shud tell him.That's a great idea. Why don't you go up to your dad and tell him that for all of the blood, sweat and tears that he put into raising you, you decided to belittle his efforts and turn into a queer. I'm sure that'll pay him back right for not buying you that pony you wanted for Christmas a few years back.you don't want to stay trapped for the rest of your life do you...
seek help from people you understand then work your way towards your father support..you have to confront otherwise you end up with much suffering
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http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...you should tell him there no way you can hide it especially if you get serious with another girl. tell him and expect that he might not accept, and explain to him that it shouldn't matter who u choose to love. good lucktell him...if he doesnt accept it then he doesnt love you as much as he should...Hannah sweetie I feel you should wait until he asks you then tell him. I do not think you should go out of your way to disclose this to him. If and when he ask then answer honestly. Good talking to you again. Until later Peace.I think it totally depends on what type of person he is, only you can decide if it's okay to tell him or not, but it seems like your on the right path to telling him. If you have to rely on him to take you place, or he pay for your food, still living at home, I personally wouldn't tell, but if your on your own, and can stand on your two feet, and can take care of yourself that I don't see a reason why you couldn't. He's your dad, and he's gonna love you no matter what, he could possibly not talk to you for a while, but he'll eventually come around.i did,
well i told him that i may like girls
you may be in for a little surprised on how well they take it!
my dad didnt say much
he didnt act all crazy like i thougt he would ofyeah go aheadIf your father loves you he will accept you for who you are. Be sensitive and tell him when the time is right. don't blurt it out just to get it out. "Dad, could you pass the gravy and by the way I'm a lesbian"Yea, u should, let dem no how u feel.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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